Techniques for teaching brothers to love each other easily.

To add new members to the family it is a very fun thing for mom and dad.  But not all members were happy and excited with all of their parents.  Brother sister Maybe there is something in my heart that is not 100% happy, like a parent, is not strange.  Because his position has also changed.  It may affect your sister / brother.  Whoever was able to get full attention before some children feel miserable, unstimulated, and hard to adjust.  Fathers don't just have to prepare themselves; parents also have to prepare siblings first too

Preparing a sister / brother during pregnancy 

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Say your mom is pregnant we will have a new member coming home soon.

Show baby photos

Read books about childbirth.  (It should match the child's age as well)

Take your baby to visit a home with the newborn.

Together to name the younger ones

You may take your child to the doctor together. You will hear the heart sound smaller in the stomach and see ultrasound images

Parental secrets should reveal about your sister / brother upon the birth of a new member (1) 

1. The daily routines and activities of my brother / sister

Try to maintain the same routine as before, whether you are playing on the playground or meeting friends with your children.  Telling bedtime stories can be difficult to manage during the first few weeks.  But by sticking to the practices that you have implemented, this will help your elder feel that he is still getting time from his parents.

2. I must admit that my sister / sister may not love you at first 

They might not feel the way you think their siblings should love them.  I understand that parents will be happy when they see their brothers and sisters generous and share happiness.  But sometimes that's not what we think.  Try to lower expectations because it is something new to him.  Is that building an incremental relationship takes time

3- Be prepared to handle the biggest demands

Sister brother may need more attention in this matter, friends or relatives may come to help you.  Come to play with an elder, take her for a walk but the older brothers still need time to confront their parents.  So that they don't feel forgotten

4. Help encourage my sister / brother to take care of the little ones

Some children don't like the younger ones.  But he found the children very interesting.  Parents can help support this by talking to him when he was a child.  He took out his old toys and shows a picture of the child when he was a child

5. Distract a sister while feeding or feeding the child

Sister You may feel distracted and jealous when you breastfeed your baby.  Because children are still of helpful age when feeding or feeding.  So, before starting to breastfeed or breastfeed I might find an activity for me to be able to play first or maybe use this time as time for storytelling, reading, or talking to my oldest.

6. Be patient with this behavior.  Sister brother back to being a child again

A sibling might ask for a bottle of milk.  You want to get pregnant or want to potty train again.  This is normal behavior, so don't let them bother you.  And you shouldn't punish them.

7. Envy and resentment

It's a story with a very high incidence of being jealous.  This can be solved by asking my parents for help.  A friend or relative so you have time to be alone with each child.  This will help you manage the needs of your children.

8. To my sister / brother, participated in raising children

You can also have your brother change diapers.  Please pick up things to help you read the book Talk to young people or play different games by letting him be a hero to help him out of danger

Methods of promoting good brotherhood (2)

Does your child have a good relationship?  Or are they more likely to fight than play together?

Parents play an important role in strengthening the relationship between our siblings.  And reduce competition and conflict by promoting activities that complement teamwork, play for fun together.  And let your child know how to deal with conflicts creatively. A good relationship that allows them to be a part of each other in their lives.

Research has shown that sibling relationships often play an important role in other relationships, such as friends, lovers, etc., in the future.

Tips to Foster a Good Relationship 

Sibling relationships are very important.  Many families can strengthen the relationship between the adopter and their child.  Which he did, then let's see

1. Do not compare brothers and sisters.

First of all, try not to say what you want.  "Why don't you look like your brother?"  Comparisons are a way to kindle a sibling match and create dissatisfaction.  I can envy some kids.

2. Find out what is behind the conflict between siblings.

Do your children tend to argue when trying to get their attention?  Do they compete to get you to focus on them, or do they fight more when they are tired or bored?

When you see the pattern of conflicts arising in your children.  For example, you might try to spend time face-to-face with each child.  And try to help your child find ways to deal with the attention of the other child, in peaceful ways.

3. Teach children to accept differences between each other.

One of your children might be children who love to sit and read quietly.  And another person may want to play games when children have very different interests and emotions that may cause conflicts.

It is important to teach your child how to respect these differences.  We care for each other, I would love if a child wants to do extreme activities.  While the other child wants to do quiet activities you can plan for your children.  Able to do activities together or take turns doing your favorite activities or look for things your children share in spending quality time with brothers and sisters

4. Let your children work as a team.

This is one of the ways in which a company builds teamwork and cooperation among its employees.  When employees participate in physical exercises and activities that support cooperation and then make the shadow go well, parents can apply this principle to their children.  By having children do the housework together or help each other.

You might start with a simple activity like decorating a room together, watering plants, or cleaning your garage together.  The activities and time that children have to do should be appropriate for the child's age.

Or perhaps dividing teams by allowing children to be on the same team and elders on the other team could encourage children to work together to achieve the same goal.

5. Build listening skills

The ability to listen is an important skill for children to develop and help them learn to empathize with others around them.  And look at another person's point of view to understand each other's opinions

6. Respect each other.

Listening is one way to demonstrate mutual respect.  Whether it is a friend or sibling, respect is essential to building a healthy relationship.  Remind your child that he should treat others the way he wants, and be treated with kindness and concern for the feelings of others.

Respect includes speaking well, even when disagreeing.  It does not violate the space and property of others, such as not entering a brother's room without permission or using other people's property without permission.

7. Teach them to respect differences.

Sometimes people who love each other have quarrels - this is the truth of life.  But we have a way to deal with these conflicts by teaching your children that they do not use profanity on the pronouns of others or siblings.  They have to interact with each other for some reason. Kind words never hurt each other.

8. Make hours of fun

Families who have fun together are less likely to have conflict.  Try to choose games and activities that the whole family can enjoy, such as biking or watching new movies for the kids.

9. Blaming the child in front of his brother

Reprimanding children in front of others will make your child feel bad in the face of others or siblings. It may make children lack confidence, and others may not look at their children in the future, but on the other hand, if you often praise a child in front of others or siblings.  Children who are complimented will have a sense of self-importance.  Others will become jealous and startled.  Parents must call their child to talk one by one.  Inquire about the accident and then train and advise the child

I hope parents make the effort Keep training yourself because many skills may violate your spontaneity.  But when you try to strive and have a clear goal, it will help children love and reconciliation Caring for one another, bring peace and tranquility to your home.  Parents are also comfortable.  You will feel that your time is not wasted.