Coping when having to move to school - teach children to adapt to new environments

From the news of the counselor who attacked the students in the school, this is a big trend at the moment, making the parents of children who have been abused by the teachers want to transfer to the school.  Or, in some cases, it may be necessary to leave school.  It may be due to new job duties or a change of title.  Whatever the reason, sometimes the need for children to move to school according to it may be disturbing to children unintentionally because no one likes to start a new community all the time, right?  Plus, you never know if your kids will feel good about these sudden changes.  After the transition, children have to adjust to a new school, new friends, and a new society, where they may find themselves lagging behind their classmates.  Many children worry about being "new children" and some find it difficult to make new friends.

For families of civil servants, soldiers, police, teachers, or families that parents have to move to often there are huge challenges for children.  He often feels isolated from the surroundings, disoriented, and resists change.  Feeling nervous about going to a new school so if your child moves to school, the best thing you can do is to prepare your child for change.  You can do this by involving your child as much as possible in the transition to school.  This will help your child to see the exciting aspects.  He would be happier if he knew that his needs had been met and assessed.

Teach your children embrace change

Here are some tips for getting your child involved in the change:

Tell the child in advance

If possible, discuss transportation with your child beforehand.  Do not go to school without telling your child.  It will make him very confused about what has happened to his life.  Why move school

Create an atmosphere

You yourself should be excited about this step.  (In the case of transfer)

Let your children tell their expectations in a new place.

Have your child talk about what he expects to transfer to the new school.

Let your child tell about the worries of his heart.

Have your child talk about what he's worried about.  Take the time to discuss all of his concerns.  So you can help find a solution to relieve children's anxiety

Look for information

Find information about the school in the area you are moving to.  Make a list of schools and show it to your child.  If your child is old enough to know let's talk about the pros and cons of each school.  If possible, visit the school with your child.

Make new friends for your child

Ask if there are other children who transfer to the same school as your child.  Find opportunities for your child to talk to them.  You can schedule your kids to go to school with them on the first day.

Ask for advice

If you know a family or friend who recently moved to this school.  Ask them for their advice to share their experience with your child.

How to prepare for your child before the transition to school 

You may want to make a list of what you need to do in relation to the school relocation.  You can then tag directly when you're done.  Let's see what elements are there.

1. Deal with your child's old school.

To resign / transfer a school, speak to the principal / principal and teachers of the school your child is leaving.

Prepare your child's wallet to bring to the new school.

Journal of activities and memories (friendships) from your child's old school.

Make lists and contact numbers for old school friends and neighbors.  (If you need to move) to your child

Give your child's new home address to the parent of your child's best friend.  If the kids are old enough, they can contact each other via email.  Text or social media.

Maybe a little farewell party! Get together only with your child's closest friends

Give your kids an old school outfit.

2. Manage your child's new school

Apply to a new school by talking to the new school principal / principal you can inquire about school activities.  It can help new children adjust to school buddy faster, such as buddy system, buddy assistance, gathering, etc.

Purchase school uniforms, uniforms and new books (if the need arises)

Walk around to explore the new school building with your child. This will help your child get an idea of ​​what the school layout looks like.  And where each important point is located, such as the cafeteria, the restroom, the teacher's room, the library, etc., you and your child can spend a day at school before your child starts his first day.

Visit the childcare center after school.  (If your child will need the service)

Make sure your child knows how to get to and from school.  For example, you will pick it up and download it.  Using which road if traveling alone how to go or bus stop or where is the train station

Talk to your new neighbor or your child's new teacher. Your child may meet new classmates before the first day of school.

If the language is not your child's first language, ask the school about programs that will support their language.

If your child has a special needs If you have an illness (autism or a disability, for example), talk to your new school about the facilities and programs available to support your child.

How to help your child after the transition to school 

When you have moved, also try to make time to help your child adjust to his new life.  With the following ideas to present

Meet with the principal / principal, teacher, or school coordinator.  You may need to request an interview with the teacher to inquire about your child's modification.  And other concerns

Ensure that your child has all the equipment and clothes they need at school, such as sports clothes on colorful days, especially sports activities, scout clothes, girl scout uniforms, red youth uniforms and others, as well as school books, pens, notebooks, de-press, eraser,  Wood paint, paper clipboard and school bag according to school rules, or trolley bag for kids.

If possible, request a copy of your child's weekly schedule so that the whole family knows what activities and what your child needs on a daily basis.

Learn about the cafeteria, library, playground and other school facilities.

Find out if the school has extracurricular activities that your child might enjoy.  He talked to the children whether they want to participate or not because he has to do activities that he likes that may help him adapt more easily

School transfer is not easy for children 

Moving home can be a great experience for your children and family members.  But changing schools, whether moving to different regions, counties and even countries, also poses many challenges.

These challenges include the following.

You can compare the new school to the old school.  Many times when you talk to your child you are not interested. This kind of event is only in the early stages.  Because this is his new story

A different language If the new school uses a different language than the language of the country you moved to, this is also what makes the child anxious.  (If the country moves)

Missing old friends from old school or a friend around (in case moving into a house), of course, no one can easily replace anyone who has to wait for that kid until he takes time to adjust.  Then he might find a new best friend

Some babies are very adaptable.  They do well when moving to a new school.  But don't be satisfied you still have to watch how your child feels about the change.  Really adaptable or not?

If you talk to your child about the transition to school and have him express his negative concerns or feelings.  This will help you see the different views your child has on school transfers.

Your attitude towards moving your baby can have a profound effect on the way he feels.  If you let him see that you are nervous, sad, or angry about his school change.  He might be nervous.  Unstable so try to stay positive.  Even if you feel how heavy you are